February, a winter month.
The month of Valentine's Day. How better to celebrate than with the love
poems of the "Poetess of Passion" herself. Several of this
month's poems are chosen from Ella's book "Poems
of Love" and the prose section is a chapter entitled "Love
Lincoln's birthday is also celebrated in February and in 1909 while in
Jamaica that February day, Ella was called upon by a Mr. Hadley to help
write a poem to go on the menu for a special dinner honoring the one hundredth
anniversary of Lincoln's birth. She entitled her small verse "Lincoln,
February 12, 1809-1909."
Another event of
February is Mardi Gras, the celebration just before the beginning of Lent.
And what greater place to celebrate the festival than in New Orleans! Ella
was there in February 1885.
One of our EWW
eSociety members recently mentioned the value of Out of Print booksellers
available on the web. I've certainly enjoyed purchasing several items from
some of them over the years and it's also a great way to compare costs
for particular titles. You can find a list of some of these booksellers
on our web site at http://184.108.40.206/individuals/edwardsr/ella/ellasoc.htm#op
I'd like to thank
Ruth White for her contributions this past month as well. She sent me copies
of several old newspaper articles which have been reprinted on our eSociety
mailing list and added to our web site.
This seems to be
a new year of changes. In addition to our web site moving to Northeastern
State University in the next month or two, our eSociety group has also
moved due to Yahoo purchasing eGroups. You can now find our eSociety at
month in Ella's life:
|February 4, 1836
Amos Wheeler (Ella's grandfather), born June 14, 1762;
married to Eunice Hosford on August 20, 1788 (1789?) in Thetford,
Vermont; died on February 4, 1836 in Thetford, Vermont.
|February 13, 1881
Ella, residing in Milwaukee, wrote to fellow poet Arthur
O'Shaughnessy. She wrote, "I am slowly but surely gaining ground in the
East. I feel sure in another year they will begin to know me as oneof
theirs, and awaken to the fact that I have been doing much as good
as their own -- for many years."
"To continue those services,
Mrs. Frank Leslie, in February, 1885, made a dashing visit to New Orleans
to inspect the Cotton Centennial Exposition and, incidentally, enjoy a
carnival ball. With her friend Mrs. Pierce and her advertising manager,
Herbert Bridgman, she attended the Exposition, where the paintings of the
Marquis de Leuville and the periodicals of Mrs. Frank Leslie were both
on display. At the St. Charles Hotel she ensconced herself near the piano
in the grand parlor and received the city's potentates and reporters. She
called on one of her contributors, Ella Wheeler Wilcox, whose first check
had come from the Leslie Publishing House and had immediately opened a
floodgate for her poems of passion. Ella was a bit disappointed in her
first sight of Mrs. Leslie, finding that her pronounced Roman nose militated
against her beauty, but she readily accepted her invitation to meet Joaquin
Miller. The untamed Poet of the Sierras was occupying George Washington
Cable's house in the garden district, and received his literary sisters
with eclat and breakfast. While Ella watched in vain for evidences of consuming
passion in Miller's attitude toward Mrs. Leslie, Miriam quietly expressed,
in passing, a desire that the poet escort her to the carnival ball. Since
she had no ticket, Miller regarded the suggestion as an impossibility,
though he approached the mayor, the governor, and two United States senators.
Nothing could be done. Queen Victoria herself could not enter without a
: the life of Mrs. Frank Leslie. By Stern, Madeleine B.
Norman, OK: University of Oklahoma Press,
|February 12, 1894
In a letter from the Westminster Hotel in New York
City to the publisher, Mr. Bok, Ella wrote of a recent discovery. "I have
found a new genius -- a girl who is wasting her strength in a sewing machine
house on Bleeker St --but who writes with wonderful diction & insight.
Her name is Eleanor Cox."
Eleanor Rogers Cox became a minor author. Her best known
works are "A duel at dawn a one act tragedy ; and, A millionaire's trial
: a comedy-drama in four acts" (1894); A hosting of heroes, and other
poems (1911); and Singing fires of Erin (1916).
|February 11, 1902
Ella's nephew, Leslie Couillard Wheeler, (son of her brother,
Marcus "Mark" Pratt Wheeler; born December 20, 1877) married Mable
Douglas on February 11, 1902. They had three boys and three girls and lived
in Windsor, WI.
|February 14, 1902
Ella wrote a poem to her husband, Robert, dwelling on
the question "How will it be?" when one of them is gone
and the other left behind. Luckily she was not to discover the answer for
another fourteen years.
HOW WILL IT BE?
How will it be when one of us alone
February 14, 1902
Goes on that strange, last journey of the
That voyage on which no comradeship is known?
Will our dear sea sing in the old sweet
Though one sits stricken where its billows
Will whisperings of love be backward blown?
When our untied lives are wrenched apart,
And day no more means sweet compainionship;
When fervent night, and lovely languorous
Are only memories to one sad heart,
And but in dreams fond kisses burn the lip,
Dear God, how can this same fair world move
of sorrow and triumph. by Ella Wheeler Wilcox
New York: George H. Doran, 1918.
LINCOLN, FEBRUARY 12, 1809-1909.
When God created this good world,
A few stupendous peaks were hurled
From His stong hand; and they remain
The wonder of the level plain.
But these colossal heights are rare,
While shifting sands are everywhere.
So with the race. The centuries pass,
And nations fall like leaves of grass.
They die--forgotten and unsung.
While straight from God some souls are flung
To live, immortal and sublime.
So lives great Lincoln for all time.
sunny seas; By Ella Wheeler Wilcox.
Chicago: Conkey, 1909.
In all earth's music, grand, or sweet, or strong,
To hear one name, as if 'twere set in song.
In all my poems, written 'neath the sun,
To find the praises, o'er and o'er, in one.
To feel thyself a lesser part of what
Hadst thou not found, the earth would be as naught.
To think all beauty, perfectness and grace,
As but the shadow of one worshiped face.
With that face's coming, to bask in warmth and light
And with its going to grope, as in the night.
To rather feel a dear hand's stinging blow
Than any caress another might bestow.
To rather sit in gloom, and hear one voice
Than, missing that, on mountain tops rejoice.
To lose all individual hope and aim,
And have no wish, but for another's fame.
To count grief naught, though great, if one is glad.
To feel no joy if that dear one is sad.
Do thy heart strings, responsive, answer this?
Then thou hast known true love in all its bliss.
of Love by Ella Wheeler Wilcox
Chicago: M.A.Donohue, 1905.
The day is drawing near, my dear,
When you and I must sever;
Yet whether near or far we are,
Our hearts will love forever,
Our hearts will love forever.
O sweet, I will be true, and you
Must never fail or falter;
I hold a love like mine divine,
And yours--it must not alter,
O, swear it will not alter.
of Love by Ella Wheeler Wilcox
Chicago: M.A.Donohue, 1905.
It would be interesting to know who wrote the first love letter,
and what he said. For, of course, it was he.
It is an odd fact, that while men are far more cautious
than women in signing their names to business documents, they compromise
themselves on paper at Cupid's command much more frequently.
A man scrutinizes with great care everything which
he writes for legal purposes before he appends his signature thereto; but
he signs his name boldly to reams of wild, extravagant utterances where
love stands at his elbow, and hurries it off with a special delivery stamp.
Fine sport it proves sometimes for Cupid when the
letters he has instigated are produced in court and read to an interested
and jeering audience. A letter which causes the hearts of two people
to palpitate when written and read usually stirs the risibles of everybody
else who hears it.
A love letter, like a kiss, is news to be shared
only by the two interested parties.
It is interesting to note the progressive addresses
in a love affair carried on by correspondence. The first letter addressed
to Miss Mollie Blank begins "Miss Blank, Dear Miss;" then "My Dear Miss
Blank," "My Dear Mollie," "Dear Mollie," "Darling Mollie," "Darling!"
There is no fashion which can dictate the writing
of a love letter. As the tones of human voice vary, so will love
letters be varied by individual peculiarities of style, while all carry
one message and tell one tale. The striking similarity of expression
in all love letters does not lessen their value. Because the apple
blossoms have ever the same color and perfume, they are none the less beautiful
with each recurring spring.
Some men can talk love by the hour, but cannot write
a word of it. Others are dumb in presence of the beloved one, but
pour their hearts out on paper.
It is curious to note what absolute nonsense often
drops from the pens of brilliant men and women when they are in love.
It proves the sincerity of their passion far more than do studied literary
efforts. It is not well to place too much confidence in the flowery
and extravagant epistles of a romantic man of literary tendencies.
His imagination often runs away with him when he takes his pen in hand.
A simple "I love you" from the pen of a practical business man carries
more weight than a volume of poetic phrases written by the dreamer.
There have been men known to compose their love
letters on a type machine. The less said of them, the better.
They deserve capital punishment--to be shot until they are dead by Cupid's
It is a great art to know how to write an effective
love letter. But it cannot be learned save in love's school.
To a person of any intuition and discernment, a
letter conveys the reader's true mood. A man may be such a skilled
actor that he can say "I love you" with convincing effect, when he does
not love at all.
But if he writes the words from an empty heart, they convey
emptiness. Written at white heat, from a full heart, they leap from
the paper like electric sparks. The trouble with many women is, they
illuminate the pages of a man's letter with the light of their own affections,
and give the man the credit of the effort produced.
Sometimes a love letter proves a death blow to passion.
I knew a very young girl who worshipped a handsome
lover, of whom her parents disapproved, for a period of two years.
Then, during a separation, he wrote his first love epistle. So illiterate
and ungrammatical was it that the girl's love died before she finished
There are few things in life more unpleasant to
encounter than old love letters full of ardent protestations of undying
affection, exchanged by the people who have grown absolutely indifferent
to each other.
A love letter is like a strawberry shortcake--delicious
when it comes fresh from the oven, nauseating when it has stood twenty-four
hours in the ice chest.
thoughts in prose and verse. by Ella Wheeler Wilcox
Chicago: W. B. Conkey Company, 1901.
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